When Love Is a Lie: Narcissistic Partners & the Pathological Relationship Agenda / Ballard, Zari L

This bookbyNarcissist Recovery Coach (NAR) Zari Ballardis a tell-all narrative about narcissism in relationships that skips the clinical bullshit to focus solely on the personal experience. When Love Is a Lie will make you laugh and it may even make you cry but, above all else, it will provide confirmation and validation that YOU are not the problem.

When our partner has a narcissistic personality, the relationship is so crazy that only those who've experienced it first hand will ever understand the madness. Zari Ballard's story will open your eyes to the mind-boggling dysfunction in your own relationship and guide you down a better path. Narcissist abuse is so intentionally passive-aggressive that we never quite understand what's happening until we're already hooked. Friends and family try to be supportive but they simply don't "get it". From its very first pages, When Love Is a Lie offers a reprieve from this isolation.

"Any relationship involving a person with a narcissistic personality disorder will inevitably take a dark turn. We stay in the relationship thinking we can fix this person or love him/her out of their bad behavior but the truth is that narcissists, sociopaths and psychopaths can never be fixed - not with love, therapy, or any magic pill." (Z. Ballard) If this sounds dramatic, then you've never loved a narcissist. If it sounds familiar, then this very special book may just change your life.

When Love Is A Lie breaks down the signs of a narcissistic personality, exposes the narcissist's way of thinking, and explains exactly how a partner with this type of personality will....

• ..over time, deliberately and methodically manage down your expectations of the relationship so that you expect less and less and he/she gets away with more

• ..mimic the appropriate emotions at opportune times to achieve desired results


• ..use the silent treatment, disappearances/reappearances, and other demoralizing (and passive-aggressive) control tactics to punish those who dare to call him/her out on questionable behaviors

• ..create constant narcissistic chaos and turmoil even - and especially - during the "good" times as a way of keeping you in a heightened state of co-dependent anxiety 24/7


• ..juggle many relationships at once - sometimes for years on end - with no one being the wiser, not even you

As it has for thousands of narcissist abuse victims worldwide, When Love Is a Lie is going to resonate with you in ways that no other book about narcissism ever has.

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